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It is April 1st as I write this. Otherwise known as April Fool’s Day. According to History.com –
On this day in 1700, English pranksters begin popularizing the annual tradition of April Fools’ Day by playing practical jokes on each other.
Although the day, also called All Fools’ Day, has been celebrated for several centuries by different cultures, its exact origins remain a mystery. Some historians speculate that April Fools’ Day dates back to 1582, when France switched from the Julian calendar to the Gregorian calendar, as called for by the Council of Trent in 1563. People who were slow to get the news or failed to recognize that the start of the new year had moved to January 1 and continued to celebrate it during the last week of March through April 1 became the butt of jokes and hoaxes. These included having paper fish placed on their backs and being referred to as “poisson d’avril” (April fish), said to symbolize a young, easily caught fish and a gullible person.
I hate April Fool’s Day as I cannot stand to see other people made fools of. I loath pranks and just think they are mean. When I watch a TV show or movie where someone gets made fun of, either directly or indirectly, I generally cover my eyes to block it out. I get a rush of feeling in my gut, I turn red and I hate every bit of it.
My biggest problem though is in reading. I can’t close my eyes when I feel bad for a person, I can’t blindly turn the page as there is probably stuff I will miss in the story line. So what can I do? I always say I want to feel with a character, not just for them. But when a moment happens that just makes me want to die (for example in Bridget Jones’ Diary she showed up at a nice party in a Playboy bunny girl outfit because she didn’t get the message that the Tarts & Vicars theme was not happening. Actually the majority of that book killed me.) what is the correct procedure? Now, I know I am very sensitive, I cry at Hallmark commercials “She got a card!” and at the Christmas coffee commercial “He came home!”, but man does it hamper reading at times. I guess being sensitive to others feelings is not wholly bad, but it puts a different perspective on what most others find amusing. I find I will shy away from certain authors if I have felt to much awkwardness in their previous books. So knowing I cannot change how I react, I will try to find comfort in the small things in my reads and gloss over the bad as quickly as possible.
So tell me, what makes you feel sorry for a book character? How do you react and or cope?
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